Sunday, 22 January 2017

Yoga for children with autism

Yoga Adjustments for Children with Special Needs by Tracey Maclay

ž  Children can benefit from doing something different that a typically developing child can do.
ž  Groups of older children can incorporate drawing, planning of own classes. Children can draw the poses before they do them on the day, for example, on a white board or paper. Make a sequence of their own.  Take a pose of the day to take home.
ž  Yoga breathing and mantras work well to work through any pain or discomfort they may have to go through.
ž  Teaching family classes, can also help with siblings and parents involved and all sharing the experience.

-            Plan a class as you would for a typically developing child, however be ready to be flexible.  Children may want to focus first on what they have done before, practised or feel confident in and what they felt was the most fun!
-            Adapt the pace to suit the child’s needs, temperament and age.  Learn as much as you can about these needs from parents and carers.
-            Simplify cues with less talk and explanations, more action.
-            Stick to the ‘routine’ of the class as much as possible.
-            Be aware of any triggers which may bother a child or may be distressing in the environment for them – noise, smell, light, closeness of other children.
-            Use props and visual cues as much as possible – picture cues, poses, rule reminders, story board cards.
-            Children with limited movement will benefit from breath work, visualisation and supported seated poses or adapted physical movements.
-            Review and share with parents the positive developments, however large or small and listen to feedback.
-          And as always…see each child as competent and capable!

Yoga for children on the Autism spectrum.

ž  Children with auditory processing difficulties
may find some music distracting.  They may prefer
the more soothing sounds of Tibetan bowls or simple
chants like: SO HAM or Yoga Nidra music.
ž  Use Sequential routines: Start practice with similar warm ups and sun salutation each time and finish in the same way.
ž  Make movement enjoyable: teach play through movement Eg. imitate an animal with a child with ASD. Simplify, repeat and reinforce good behaviour.
ž  Put children with behavioural issues with children with more severe ASD behaviours.
ž  Keep children active, but dont over- do the poses as this will bring stress to system rather than focus and calm.


ž  Be mindful that lots of visuals in the room can be distracting for the child with autism.
ž  Consider ways to include their specific interests into the yoga class eg. Dinosaurs, games with rules.
ž  Be flexible in your plan. They may be particularly tired one day and need extra Savasana and relaxation poses.  School days can be tiring and they may not be sleeping well.
ž  If they are super tactile sensitive or have allergies, steer away from eye pillows with lavender on their eyes and use on their stomachs or not at all.
ž  Use props but put them away as soon as used so they wont be distracted by them.
ž  Use a fit ball or yoga barrel to support in back bends. They love the feeling of rocking and rolling often and heart opener poses.
ž  Break poses into smaller, achievable steps and use gestural cues if parent uses same and introduce new ones for yoga class.
ž  Use technology apps. Occasionally for visual support.
ž  Remember: action, rest, action. Children are built for short bursts of energy, then rest, not like adults who have more endurance.

ž  Visual cues provide a lot of structure.
ž  Yoga picture cards
ž  Use signs as cues:
ž  ‘STOP’ sign
ž  ‘RELAX’
ž  ‘Eyes on me’ visual.

ž  Re-direct to slow breathing if you can sense an outburst coming on. Hold up a finger with each breath or slide finger up and down each finger.
ž  Do some familiar calming poses.
ž  Notice physical sensations together at times of calm.  Notice where tension is held when feeling stressed.  Practice squeezing their hands and different parts of their body then going floppy to recognise the feeling of being tense and changing to calm.
References

D. Freeman, 2009, Once Upon a Pose, Trafford Publishing , Canada. Sumar, S. Yoga for the Special Child and website: www.specialyoga.com.

Friday, 20 January 2017

Happy is an illusion: part 2.

Why 'Happiness' seems so hard to attain?
I've found a good way of looking at what happiness really is about and what makes some people seem happier overall than others. My best explanation so far is this: Those that are happier value this definition of happiness:  'The daily experience for a more meaningful life'.  (Max Strom.)

Furthermore, a more easily attainable goal is to strive for 'contentment' in life. We wouldn't have a the full spectrum of feelings available to us if we were meant to be continually happy! (Patanjali yoga sutras). Remember you are not in charge of anyone but yourself and you are not responsible for anyone else's happiness. 
So get out there and do something that is meaningful to you.  This can include helping others find happiness too.
Yoga philosophy teaches that what you give out in positive energy comes back to you in this life and hopefully the next.
Savour your moments in life, every single breath is a extra breath you've been given to be part of this world and to shine your light.
Meditation teaches us how to observe our thoughts before we respond and to remember to do this in daily life. This takes  practice and concentration. When you are deeply relaxed your body produces oxytocin and serotonin.
Meditation helps to calm your 'monkey mind' from jumping around from one thought to another. Character is made up of repeated habits. We can choose to change our habits. 
Make it a habit to Meditate at least twice a week and then progress to daily. Start with 2 minutes and 5 breaths without any other thought creeping in. If you falter, start back at one again. Prana is your energy force which is awAkened using your breathing techniques. Feeling the movement of your breath from your lower stomach right up to your throats and back down again. Use a mindfulness app. If needed to get started. 
Meditate on a place you like to be. Use visualisation to take you there. 
Use a picture in your mind, for example: Meditate on a lotus flower rising from the muddy waters. 
Meditate on love and those you love.
Meditate on your God or any divine being you can relate to and imagine their heart and the purity of it. 
Meditate on sending compassion to those you love and those who may need to feel more love in their heart. 
Meditate on a physical object: a candle, (a fake one for children) or a word that is written, for example, the word 'joy' in big letters and then close your eyes and visualise it in your mind. 
Meditate on a single word, 'mantra'. 'Om' 'so ham'. These mantras are sounds that can bring peace by making the sound within yourself and joining the energy within you to the wider universe. 
Meditate 'Om' reach up then bend down- mantra: ' it's not about me. ' 
Final tips: Take a moment to centre yourself for the day, for example; set an intention for the day ahead or state an affirmation to yourself.
Stretch your body in the morning and throughout day.
Have a laugh.
Take a minute to be grateful for the goods things in your life.
Make time for yourself; take a nice bath once a week or make time to drink a coffee (all of it!) by yourself if possible.
Music, meditation,yoga, exercise, personal rituals all help to alleviate anxiety and general life stress.  Use what works for you!

References: Strom, M, There is no app. for happiness.
Davidow, S. Raising Stress Proof Kids.

Thursday, 19 January 2017

Own your choices


This is my from: 
 (80yr.old Scottish grandmother). 'Get your priorities straight. Education is important. Work to pay for it if you have to.  Being poor myself and siblings were sent out to work as we Needed money to bring into the family. Staying on at school was not an option. Young people need to think carefully about  What they want in their future.  
Choose your company wisely. You don't have to do what everyone else is doing. You don't have to follow the crowd.  If your even a bit lonely don't follow others into bad habits just to fit in.' 
 I really wish I'd had that advice at 21! 
An  Art teacher wrote on my art history assignment once, 'it would make me turn in my grave if I knew you were serving cups of tea in life instead of using your fine mind' . It took me another 10 yrs to take this advice. 
A turning point in my life was Having my son at 22yrs. Feeling unconditional love for him, knew I had to work hard to for him and stop avoiding life. I had to strive to be the best version of myself that i could be. After battling domestic violence, anxiety and depression I finished two degrees and learned to live alone until I met my husband now. I Have eventually made a meaningful life for myself and not for anyone else. 
 Listen more, talk less. Talk to the elderly and listen to their views and learn from their history, good and bad. Listen for meaning behind what they say. 
Listen to who you truely are as well. When I was Feeling stuck in my life I had created, I needed to stop being a victim and instead let go of fear and be  responsible for my own actions. 

Enjoy natural pleasures that don't cost anything, like walking in nature.  Live in the moment and be grateful. If you feel wronged by anyone, be compassionate for their troubles, but be strong and stand up for goodness. You don't have to condone their behaviour but you need to forgive for your own well being. 
Hard times are part of life. If you didn't experience hard times then you wouldn't recognise the happy ones. We are meant to feel a whole range of feelings in this life and that is normal. 
'Take chances, make mistakes, that's how you grow. Pain nourishes your courage. You have to fail to learn how to be brave' Mary Tyler Moore. (1936-  American actress). 
Learn to say in real life to someone what you have said with your heart in a greeting card or  you may regret it.  Stop blaming others and get in the game.

Tuesday, 17 January 2017

Are we raising risk aversion kids?

http://kidshealth.com.au/let-children-suffer-little/
My latest article talks about risk aversion in Australian kids.

New book on the way!

my blogging of domestic violence through generations will be a book soon. So stay tuned!
Tracey Maclay
Yogamotorskills.com

Thursday, 12 January 2017

Sunday, 1 January 2017

Setting 'intentions' for the new year.

https://www.facebook.com/Yogamotorskills/posts/1392229037495391:0
Setting 'intentions'.